A post from 2013 in memory of my Dad…
I thought having an allotment would make me immune from vegetable gifts.
I was wrong.
Innocent observations made to other allotmenteers, like ‘cracking courgettes!’ or ‘beautiful beans!’ bring hope to their eyes.
‘Please take a few!’ they plead. It is an unfeeling person who looks into those desperate faces and says no. To help a couple who have been on holiday and come back to find their cabbages big enough to appear on roadmaps, I take delivery of a huge head of Savoy.
Dad and I are already buckling under the weight of the supersized spuds dug from our own plot. One weighs 2lbs. Dad, who has taken to wearing 2 pairs of £1 reading specs one on top of the other rather than forking out £300 at the opticians, can hardly believe the evidence of his six eyes.
‘Now that’s a potato among potatoes!’ he says. ‘It’ll keep me going for a month.’
But back to the colossal cabbage, which I struggle to carry to the car. Perhaps it is already developing its own gravity system.
We live in a terraced house that looks bigger inside than out. The kitchen is particularly spacious. But the gargantuan green makes it seem small. The legs of the kitchen table tremble and Mr MS backs away across the kitchen saying, ‘no, no, no.’
I ignore this. ‘I know how much you like cabbage,’ I say cruelly. ‘And as you know I’m away from tomorrow. So this is your project.’
Luckily one of Mr MS’s friends is coming to stay in my absence. Luckily too, he is a vegetarian, which may help.
I leave for Northampton and phone home a few days later. Mr MS and I manage to talk pleasantly for a while, but we both know where the conversation is headed.
‘The thing is, we haven’t made much of an impact on the Savoy yet,’ he says. It’s the same old story. I am about to let him have it when a memory from primary school surfaces.
I am sitting over a bowl of tapioca pudding in the school canteen. All my friends have gone back to the playground. Under Miss Boorman’s hard gaze, I put a large spoonful of the foul spawn into my mouth, where it goes round and round. I try to swallow. But there is some sort of volcanic eruption from within. My head jerks forwards and the tapioca descends, in a vile stinging stream, from my nose.

Tapioca
I experience a rare burst of fellow feeling for Mr MS. ‘Don’t worry about it.’
Having expected a bollocking, he softens. ‘We’ll try and break through the outer atmosphere tonight, I promise.’
When I return home, he swears they have eaten five leaves. But the cabbage looks undiminished. Perhaps it is evolving, learning how to replenish itself from thin air.
I ring Dad. ‘Remember that great website you found with all those turnip recipes?’ I say, manipulatively. ‘Mr Neep?’
‘Did I?’ he says. ‘Well, if you say so.’
‘Well, now we need Mrs Brassica.’
‘Leave it with me,’ he says.
Later that evening, he rings back. ‘Good news! I’ve found a site with 200 recipes all involving cabbage.’
‘Great,’ I say.
We may have to try them all.
Illustrations by Janis Goodman
At least cabbages evolve slowly and steadily – unlike the dramatic courgette to marrow transformation which can definitely occur over night or at least over weekend. I once had 18 marrows to dispose of, after a mere week away – people on our allotment were fleeing wild eyed as I trudged heavily laden along the paths bearing gifts !
Crikey, Janis: 18? That’s a hundredweight of pale green flesh in anyone’s book. I was gifted with two big yellow ones from an allotment neighbour the other day and have to admit I passed one on to someone else.
Great writing, Mandy, I really enjoyed reading your post. I feel for you with the allotment problems. Fortunately due to rabbit problems my vegetable quantities are modest and I could do with a tad more (she says, knowing that she’s at a safe distance 🙂 )
Thanks, Sharon, and oh the cunning of your last remark! I have to admire it (thinks: courgettes might travel well through the post if packed in a cardboard tube…)
I am well impressed. About to dig up my spuds this week – from bags in the yard, so not expecting anything on your scale! Heard from a friend this week who is dealing with a glut of plums. She has made 37 lbs so far – and ony stopped because she ran out of jars.
Good luck with your taties, Reb. Hope you get a good crop. 37lbs of plum jam? Unbelieveable. I wonder what you’ll be getting for Christmas from her this year 😉
So glad your veggie experiments are really paying off now. Looks like a cabbage diet for yourself and MS. Not that you need one, you understand but I hear you can get through vast quantities of the stuff in just a week. Hate to think what the results might be but sure gets rid of the cabbage from the kitchen table.
Brilliant idea, J. And I DO need it… tricky at the moment though as we’re having our kitchen redone so are at the mercies of a slow cooker in the bedroom. Amazingly tonight I just baked some of our gigantic spuds in it. They took 8 hours!
Best not to get too attached to your vegetables if you are a vegan. You may starve!
I too am suffering from gluts, and being of Scots descent, do not want to waste any good food. so, after a month of strawberries three times a day and plums being frozen or made into plum crumble for a month, I put a plastic bag in all my visitors hands and send them to pick as many Pearmains and pippins as they can eat and Bramleys to freeze for the winter months. My potatoes are monstrous as well but some are not so good inside now whereas they were pristine when I dug them up smaller. My chips are just as delicious with holes in them where i have bevelled out the bad bits. Old thrifty habits die hard.
Lamar,even though Big Spud looks very attractive wearing Mr MS’s sunglasses, it isn’t love and anyway I’m afraid I baked him in the slow cooker the other night…
Marion, I wish I lived near you! I would be over like a shot for some Bramleys: we all love them stewed with blackberries, which the back garden is producing in gadzillions.
Note website link – how we deal with windfall apples in the wilds…
PS… am experimenting with refrigerator pickling of vegetables – essentially vinegar and fruit juice overnight in spill proof tubs.
It’s a variation on a Japanese dish – sunomono salad (cucumber/onion/rice wine vinegar/ can add a trace of sugar – then refrigerate at least overnight).
I’m using apple cider vinegar for my root pickles … pretty strong, though.
Quick way to deal with some of it… and you wind up with low fat dressing for a green salad that way. I include craisins with my root veggies – carrots, parsnips, turnips (forget what you call those there).
In closing… you reapeth what you soweth. Soweth Sorry, Girlfriend.
Interesting to hear about your refrigerator pickling experiments, Kathy. How long do you reckon the veg will keep, treated in that way? And what are craisins?
I’m there with you on the sago – yuck !!!
As for cabbage – isn’t Harvest Festival coming up ? You could give it to a school or church for them to then redistribute to some old person to do something with ?
OR – make a nice unctious tomato /garlic/herb sauce & mix with steamed shredded cabbage – delish.
OR – cabbage soup & freeze ?
Cummon – you’re a Yorkshire lass – can’t bear waste !
Good Luck x
Ooh get you, Charmaine: ‘unctuous’! Wonderful. That is a v g idea about the cabbage soup. It has already been noted that Mr MS will eat anything provided it is cooked for him.
Mandy – they should keep longer than regular refrigerated veggies as the vinegar stops mold growth pretty well. For longer term storage – there’s genuine water bath canning to consider…. whether for pickles or not.
Craisins are raisins made from cranberries. Clearly a US indiosyncracy. (Planning on taking squash, carrots, fridge pickles and other odds and ends and making wontons tonight!
Charmaine… Love the Unctuous Dish idea.
Your huge brassica seems to be floating by itself there in the picture. And look how weedy the “jumbo oats” look in the background. Not so brave now eh, Jock?
Thanks for explaining, Kathy. We are managing to keep pace with our produce at the moment – but the potato crop (which can’t be put off much longer) is going to be huge. Mr MS has been busy clearing out the cellar, but whether he’ll find enough room for ten tons of spuds is another matter.
Brilliant observation, brilliant comment, looby. A riposte in this case is best savoyded.
Ah ha… perhaps an anonymous gifting raid – complete with ambiguous poem – should be contemplated…
listen my children and you shall hear
of the midnight produce raid…
hey Mandy – loved this latest post! I’ll be over your way doing stuff at ILF so feel free to come along laden with veg to pelt at me – I shall think up some particularly bad poems so I get plenty of 5-a-day for my tea!
Big Spud looks well cool in his shades. And I love your use of language – as ever – ‘Brobdingnagian brassica’ is a classic!
love, Char
Hey Kathy and Char – two posts from two poets – how fab! See you at ILF, C (I’ll pick out only the softest produce for pelting: no big spuds nor Cyclopean cabbages I promise).
Better get cooking asap girl to get rid of the damned thing !
Good Luck x
Glad you like the word unctious ….. Fave x
Charmaine – have just taken your advice and cooked up a large batch of courgette and cabbage soup, destined for the freezer. Snaffled a bowl mesen first of course, laced with double cream – delicious. In fact I’d even call it unctuous.
Now you’re taking the mick …….
Plethora – that’s another of my faves & you will have a plethora of unctious cabbage & courgette soup to get through on the long cold winter nights ….Enjoy x
An unctuous plethora! Now you’re really talking.
Best one yet!
Keep safe by ignoring govt.who seem to be trying to make a bad mess even worse.
xx
I wasn’t put off cabbage by overcooked school dinners as my sister and I always went home for dinner (lunch). R and I like it in stir fry. If there is any of that monster savoy still left, we’ll have it!!
Thank you DM! Hope you and yours are continuing to cope and not going too stir crazy XX
I’m with you there JG. I love cabbage now, as long as it’s in smallish quantities. So sweet and squeaky!
Great piece again Mandy. Being the eldest of 7 I am reminded that the rule at dinner was always ” if you don’t eat your veg (and anything else on your plate) you don’t get any pudding!”
Thanks, John. And I must say that sounds like a v sensible rule with 7 to feed!
Try SAUERKRAUT! That should get rid of the lot. I love your style of writing Mandy – so entertaining and always a joy to read. Lots of love Christine xx
That’s a great suggestion Christine! Thanks so much for getting in touch and for your kind words. XX