I am forced to take a break from the allotment. Hip bursitis has struck (I always said those nettles would be my undoing) and walking is difficult, much less bending.
Dad is absent too. He’s had some ‘funny turns’ and a 24-hour heart monitor has shown nothing wrong, much to his disgust. ‘I’m afraid I’ve had a bit of an up and downer with the surgery,’ he says one morning at his flat.
‘Oh?’ I say, pretending to eat a stale Jacob’s Orange Club biscuit by working my jaws while breaking bits off and slipping them into my handbag. I have ruined several bag linings this way.
‘That bloody woman is trying to put me on heart tablets again. Heart tablets? I mean, what good will that do? She must be an idiot!’
He is getting annoyed all over again. I say various reasonable things. My tone strikes me as unfortunate.
Dad pounds his fist suddenly on the table, sending coffee jumping out of our mugs. ‘Whose side are you on?’
I stare at him in dismay. ‘Yours, of course!’
It isn’t the right moment to ask him to fill in for me on the allotment.
Later at home, Mr MS is kindly and willing but I can’t let him go down there unsupervised. So what with one thing and another, the place is left to stew in its own juices for several weeks. I miss it desperately and am miserable.
‘Why don’t you go down there and just sit on the bench?’ asks Mr MS. ‘Enjoy being there.’ A reasonable suggestion that annoys the hell out of me. ‘Because I hate seeing all the work that needs doing and not being able to do it,’ I say.
Mr MS stares, as at a totally alien viewpoint.
‘Oh, alright then, I’ll go,’ I say. ‘Will you make me a flask?’
Limping to the plot, I see that while I’ve been idle, other creatures haven’t. The place is covered in little mounds of soil, finely churned as though a mini rotovator has been at work.
I consult a neighbour, who had similar earthworks on his own plot last year. He says that Mr Mole is an insectivore so although he scoots under the roots, he won’t actually munch our lunch (those weren’t his exact words). So it’s best to do nothing. I’m inclined to agree, especially since doing nothing is my new forte.
But as suspected, it’s depressing sitting on the bench watching the weeds grow. I go for a hobble around the other plots. More new creatures have arrived a few plots down: three pigs. A notice on their gate says they’ve been brought in to clear the undergrowth. They seem to have done that already, including eating their own shed door.
In other news, the GP agrees to a 7-day heart monitor for Dad. This is more revealing than the 24-hour one, and a pacemaker is recommended.
‘Well, that’s good news,’ I say to Dad. He mutters something incomprehensible.
Mr MS visits the allotments twice, not to weed but to see the pigs, which are growing fatter by the second. ‘They’ll eat anything!’ he says, admiringly.
Then he brings them some Tesco’s mushrooms that have gone slimy in the fridge and discovers that they won’t. He settles for scratching their bristly heads through the gate. He doesn’t mind their stinking to high heaven, being plastered in mud and pestered by ceaseless flies. That doesn’t put other visitors off, either. Children flock down the river path. I get into the pig routine too, bringing them pea pods, which they shove each other out of the way to hog down.
But a day comes when I visit the pigs’ plot and find no sign of their itchy pink bodies. I peer around the place, refusing to believe the obvious. I am not good with Death, despite years of meditation. That’s why I’m soft on Mr Mole. And I’m not looking forward to the children’s disappointment and the pathetic age-appropriate explanations given by accompanying adults.
When I burst through the front door, wailing, Mr MS is at the cooker making a bacon sandwich.
‘Oh well,’ he says, ‘we all have to go some time.’
This makes me worry about Dad. But when I pick him up after his pacemaker operation he insists that he feels right as rain, and chooses the stairs over the lift down to the ground floor of the hospital, not allowing me even to carry his overnight bag.
Mr Mole moves on, followed by my bursitis, though little ‘itises’ follow the big one like tiny fish in a whale’s wake. As the summer passes, the weeds on the plot die back too.
Dad seems fit as a flea and has no further funny turns. He is cautiously optimistic, though doesn’t like the fact that the pacemaker is battery operated. ‘What if it’s a dud?’ he asks me on the phone. I know he’s thinking of Cheeky Looks, and the suspect car battery he was recently sold.
When I come off the phone, Mr MS says, ‘See? It all worked out in the end.’
There is no coffee table at our house to pound. I settle for muttering something incomprehensible.
Drawings by Janis Goodman
Hi babes
sorry to hear about the porkers……
gone the way of all delicious flesh
keep an eye on that hip
love jx
Hey Mandy – v sorry to hear about yr bursitis. do hope it’s feeling loads better now. and that’s grrrreat news about yr Dad’s pacemaker. how fabby having a Bionic Dad!
When I had an acre of garden in the Scottish Borders, we had a massive attack of moles one year, and they did eat a lot of the roots off our veg, and uprooted masses of stuff too, but we never found owt that worked to discourage them – including my Dad pouring neat paraffin down their tunnels, and then putting a transistor radio (in a placky bag) down a tunnel at full Radio 4 volume. I think the moles simply enjoyed Woman’s Hour, and hated You & Yours – like all good souls!
Love, Char x
Great that you are back on the blog – I had assumed it was the washout that was winter spring summer and winter of 2012 keeping you away. Hope the hip improves. Moles are not a great addition to a garden, or an allottment, although the soil they upend is very good for potting on.
Henry David Thoreau (as you will know) spent two years at Walden Pond as an personal exercise in Mindfulness, doing absolutely nothing (or apparently nothing). He wrote,’It was morning, and lo, now it is evening, and nothing memorable is accomplished’. Who knows what your time spent with Mr Mole and friends is accomplishing?!
Very glad to hear the good news about your Dad, very sorry to hear about the bursitis and other itis-es, and wish you a good, lasting recovery and some rewarding, healing time of non-doing!
Really good to hear from you Mandy.
So good to hear you are back pottering – it’s good for the soul. We spent some time rescuing bits of our garden yesterday. I took photographs of the dozen or so wonderfully “painted” snails I found and Clive rescued a frog from the storm drains. Our neighbours think we are mad!
Absolutely smashing to get all your comments and ‘likes’ – thanks so much, folks. It is always more than great to hear from you. I love the idea of moles listening to Radio 4, Char. Talking of radio Janie, thanks for the allotment comedy link you sent through, what a find. Reb, I take your advice about potting soil and Deborah, the Thoreau comment makes me laugh every time I think about it. Lovely to hear from you Marilyn too, and Maria,’painted’ snails?? Explain please!
I’ve heard of the CIA torturing prisoners with loud rock music but never thought Jenny Murray would be deployed in a similar way. Happy pottering!
Never thought I’d see the words ‘Jenny Murray’ and ‘deployed’ in the same sentence. Congrats.
Ahoy, the gardener, from Oregon. Spring, I swear to you it is spring under 3 inches of snow and a half inch of ice.
Hello Kathy! Us too with the snow, though I’m sure a Wallowa winter is less whimsical than our Yorkshire one is turning out to be.
I seems that you have come face to face with reality as my daughter did when she staying at a convent in Germany with her football team on tour. She noticed that there were only two goats when the day before there were three.
And had she enjoyed a tasty stew the night before, Lamar?
‘Mr MS stares, as at a totally alien viewpoint.’ Ha! Brilliant! I do all the weeding in our vast gardening and Janina (as unobservant as ever) said the other day: “It’s amazing how the weeds just stay in control here isn’t it?” She is now, of course, adding her blood and bone meal to the bottom layer of the far compost heap. C xx
Ha ha! That’s a very annoying observation! As long as she’s making up for it by producing uber-compost however, she can be forgiven! XX